What is Swinging?

• Post by DirtyDavid

Swinging, also known as sharing, partner swapping or wife swapping, or sometimes "The Lifestyle" is simply a groups of consenting adults (18+) enjoying sexual relationships with multiple partners.

Many swingers are into having sex with total strangers, as it enhances the thrill of playing with other people, however there must still be some physical or mental attraction to make things work.

Who Are Swingers?

• Post by DirtyDavid

Swingers are people who live an alternative lifestyle. Over the years they have been known as wife swappers, partner swappers and lifestylers.

In our years of swinging we have met and had swinging action with Politians, Judges, Actors, TV personalities, Policemen, Social Workers, Pilots, Cabin Crew, Caterers, School Teachers, Engineers, Nurses, Doctors, and many others.

Why Join Swingers in Illinois?

• Post by DirtyDavid

We have more Swingers in the Illinois than any other Swingers Contact website. We have thousands of local couples, single ladies and horny single guys waiting to meet someone like you.

Our simple joining process takes less than 5 minutes to complete, one email to confirm your email address and you can start browsing the profiles of Swingers in Illinois members

Swinging Terminology

• Post by DirtyDavid

Since I started building Swingers sites in 1997, it became obvious that many people do not understand what a lot of the acronyms (abbreviations) used within the scene mean.

Around the world the language of Swinging is different depending on local custom, but many terms stay the same..

Often there are different names given to clubs to meet local preferences or as a way of getting around local legislation against swinging.

How do I use the site to contact swingers?

• Post by DirtyDavid

Contacting Swingers in Illinois is simple using this website.

It takes less than 5 minutes to create a profile. Once you have made your profile you can start searching our database for swinging couples and singles in your choisen area.

You can use the chat rooms to talk to people who share your interests, you can read the forums to arrange meetings and events.

Can you send me a list of local swingers?

• Post by DirtyDavid

We are regularly asked if we can introduce people or provide a list of Swinging couples or ladies in a specific area, or asked to hook people up directly.

We do not do personal introductions, apart from the fact that we usually do not know the person asking, we have no idea if you would be compatible with the people we know.

How Can I Get My Partner To Swing?

• Post by DirtyDavid

You cannot push or pull someone into the swinging lifestyle without risking your marriage or relationship.

Talk about the idea with your partner, but don't push it. If getting involved in the Swinging Lifestyle is not something you both want to do, don't do it - it will end in tears!

What is BDSM?

• Post by DirtyDavid

Many people fantasize about some elements of the BDSM scene but very few like or want to be involved in all of them. Like everything in life choose what you want to do and leave the rest, Never get involved in any activity that you find unpleasant or which you do not want to do.

What is Cuckolding?

• Post by DirtyDavid

Cuckolding, is where the wife in a marriage has relationships with men outside the marriage.

In the past this was regarded as something shameful, these days many couples have turned cuckolding into a fetish game to spice up their love life.

What Are The Age Limits In Swinging?

• Post by DirtyDavid

There is no fixed upper age limit, it depends upon the sex drive, physical fitness and attractivness of the individual.

We have been running Swingers Parties for over 25 years. Our oldest regular was a man in his 70's, and we had a lady in her mid 60's who was very active at all the parties.

The minimum age is 18, or older depending on local age of consent laws.

What Is The Difference Between Swinging And Prostitution?

• Post by DirtyDavid

Swinging Is Consensual NSA (No Strings Attached) Sex Between Adults.

It Is Not A Form Of Prostitution - No Money Changes Hands.

Swinging And Prostitution Are Very Different And Not Compatible.